A day without basketball

It went really well for Maja yesterday, their team only lost one game and won the other two so that means that they got a spot in the playoffs. But in the afternoon Leo started feeling ill so Maja had to go to the last game without us, her coach was nice enough to come get her and Kalle took her home. Leo felt so bad that he went to bed at 8 pm without protest. He got some cough medicine so he could sleep.

This morning it was time to get up at 6.30 am and we got up without any trouble. Since Leo was feeling ill it was only Maja who left with Kalle, the rest of us stayed at home. So when I got her up and made sure she was getting ready I got back in to bed again and went back to sleep. I woke up when J put his arm around me, the best way to wake up.

Today I will do everything I didn't have time to do this weekend because of all the games. Like doing laundry and going to the grocery store. We have lived of left overs since there haven't been any time to go to the store or cook. But now it will be nice with a normal day. These weekends wear you out. Lucky it's only once a year.

An easy sunday

Yesterday I got a terrible headache that just wouldn't go away. It went all the way from the forehead back to the neck. It just got worse and worse so I gave up and we went to bed. At 11 pm on a saturday, with no kids at home. I went to sleep with Js arm around me, the best way to go to sleep. But it took some time with that headache. But eventually I could go to sleep.

The good thing with going to bed that early is that you wake up early the next morning, around 10 am today. Then we stayed in bed and cuddled for a while before we got up and I made coffee.

Everything with the Swedish blog isn't done I discovered. Even though I have the same adress the new posts won't show up on Bloglvin so I have e-mailed their support. After a lot of work I at least got the new posts to show on the blogs fb page so one more thing to check of the list.

Today will be an easy day, I don't have to much to do. The every day stuff like do the dishes and stuff like that. The laundry isn't dry yet so I can't deal with that until tomorrow. I could vaccum but I feel like rather curl up on the couch with a book. Which I plan to do every day but never do. I can hear the books calling me from the bookshelfs but can't find the peace to just sit down.

A not so quiet sunday

What a great day we had yesterday, Maja was so happy! And that what it's all about. She got great gifts too. Inlines and protection, an android figure that is a speaker to her phone, money and more money, a gift card, shorts and a pretty necklace. The only bad thing was how it ended. She had a little to much to eat so she threw up. It's not the first time that that happend so I thought she had learned, but no. First they had Chinese with Kalle for lunch and then all that sweet stuff, it was just to much for her.

Today I had planned a quiet day until I got two letters in the mail at the end of the week. The first one was that they are coming to adjust the termostat so I have to empty the closet so they can get to it, and the other thing is that they are painting the wood on the balcony so I have to empty the balcony. Oh well, then I know what I'm doing today. Plus all that every day stuff you have to do. Then I need to think of something to eat and go to the store. And laundry. It's not like I will just sitt there today.

Easter and some arguing

We had such a great time yesterday when we went to  my mom, there is nothing better than her food. My little brother was there, my cousin and his girlfriend and my aunt. And me, the munchkins and Kalle of course. We had a good meal and hung out until it was time for us to leave because Kalle had to go to his mother.

When we got home the munchkins watched a movie and had fridays chips even though it was saturday. We got home so late friday that it was straight to bed for them so the chips had to wait. So they had it last night insted. I placed myself in bed watching tv shows and waiting for J. 

But I didn't expect to have to wait as long as I did. At first he texted me that he was on his way over. He had been with a friend playing pool and had a few beers. Fine, he was on his way. Time goes and no J. I send him a text that I hope that he doesn't walk all the way over, I don't like him walking all by himself that time on a saturday. No answer. I try to call him, he doesn't answer. Then and there is when Lilith start to worry. Finally I get a text that he has gone to the pub with his friend having a few beers.

Eeeeh, excuse me? Now, I'm not that kind of girlfriend that has a problem with him doing stuff with his friends, that's not what it's about. But when he first text me that he is on his way, and then change his mind and goes and does something else without telling me about it so I'm sittting there waiting like a fool, no then Lilith isn't happy.

Finally he shows up. I wasn't angry, just disappointed. I felt kind of unimportant when he didn't even think of texting me telling me that he isn't on his way as he said, but go and does something else. We talked and I said that I know that he has been single for three years and could come and go as he wanted and change his mind the last thing he did, but he can't do that anymore. Now we are two, not just him, and then you show consideration and stick to what you said. He understood and apologised. I'm not resentful so as soon we had talked about it I let it go and the rest of the night was great. But he is sort of hung over today and Lilith can't help but being a little spiteful about it, in a loving way. Maybe I should  hide the painkillers from him.

Today will be a day at home in sweat pants and a hoodie. I didn't have time yesterday to do anything at all at home, didn't even have time to do the dishes. So I have a whole apartment that screams for some love so I guess I´ll get started.

Moms easter food

Enter the Maze

This weekend has been so good. It's sad that it's ending while at the same time it will be nice with a new week.

Yesterday we went down town to play pool with Jimmy and his girlfriend. Or, they played pool and I was drinking two Breezer insted. I don't play pool, I think it's boring. But it's fun to watch, it looks a lot more fun than it is. We had a great time and we'll have to do it again soon.

When we were done me and J went to the bus and only had to wait ten minutes. We stopped by the pizza place and bought something to eat in front of the tv while I was watching the hockey game. It didn't go so well. I'm a bit pissed off but it's only one game and far from over.

When we had finished our pizzas and I had a smoke we curled up under the blanket in bed and watched tv shows for the rest of the night. I rather spend a saturday night without the kids home like that with J than doing something else away from home without him. He is my better half that I have been missing a long time before I met him that night in June last year. 

Today I was gonna go home to Sara for a few hours, but I just don't have time. It's to much that needs to be done for when the munchkins get home tomorrow. I usually to everything on monday before they get home but now I got my internship. So there isn't much time lef. And when I'm finished there I have just enough time to do some grocery shopping and then home and do the usual before the munchkins comes home from school. So I have a lot to do today. Wash all their clothes, put on fresh sheets on their beds and stuff like that. And then all the usual things that you do every day.

A great saturday

What a good day I had yesterday, Lilith was more than pleased.

First Rasmus came over to visit and he had his girlfriend with him too. I finally got to meet her, and she was so sweet. It's a great girl he have met. And Rasmus got to meet J as well. It went great. We had coffee and talket and then J had to go but Rasmus and his girlfriend stayed a bit longer. I guess they were here for about two hours or something like that.

When they left I got busy with my appartment, did some laundry and stuff like that. Then I got sooo bored. I did not want to curl up under the blanket in bed watching my tv shows, not another saturday when the kids aren't home. I wanted to do something but didn't know what. J was home watching the Swedish song contest.

Lucky for me my cousin called and told me my little brother was coming over so I texted him asking if he could pick me up as well and he did. So we hade some fun hours over there. We went home when J texted a little after 9.30 pm that he was on his way because the Swedish song contest was over.

When he came it was ok to get in to bed with tonights tv shows. After that we went to sleep, it was after 1.30 am so it was kind of late.

Today will be kind of a boring day as well with total focus on the appartment. The munchkins are coming home tomorrow so I have to throw on some sheets on their beds. Then I need to vacuum and finish everything with scrubbing the bathroom. That's how fun my sunday will be. But it needs to be done.

My company today

A perfect Saturday

Oh what a nice day we had yesterday when my cousin came over. I even got the blow her little ones nose and carry her, I usually don't. She is usually a bit shy. But not yesterday besides when they first came. We had coffee and talked. Yes, Lilith had coffee. I usually don't any more. And to think that I once lived on coffee. Maybe that is why I'm so tired all the time.

Today Kalle is coming over. We didn't have time for that yesterday. But now the munchkins have stolen the boxes, with Kalles approval, and packed stuff they don't use anymore. But I wonder where they are gonna put the boxes because they don't fit in the basement. It's more than full down there. 

I need to do laundry as well today, I didn't have time for it yesterday. My cousin left right before it was time for me to start dinner. So hurry hurry to the grocery store to get what I needed and then home to cook. I think I got to sit down for five minutes before it was time for dinner.

I need to do some grocery shopping today as well. That thing where I have to think of something to eat is the devils thing. I just take recipe after recipe from the binder. I can't be bothered with coming up with things to eat, it's much easier to just take the first recipe that is in the binder.

A really good weekend

We got everything we needed yesterday almost. And I can say that it's lucky for me that my dad has a big car because wow, I got a lot. It costed me over a 1000 SEK to get everything. But Lilith was a good girl and I sticked to the shopping list, but I got some candy too. J kept an eye on me to see that I didn't buy anything I didn't need. 

After we were finished my little brother took me home and we dumped everything I had gotten and then we got back in the car again. We dropped J of on the way and then my little brother took me to Sara. I was there for a few hours and celebrated her birthday and then Kalle was nice enough to come and get me. We went to Burger King for something to eat, then to the grocery store and then he dropped me off at home.

At home I put on my sweat pants and curled up under the blanket in bed and watched my tv shows. J was at home watching the Swedish music contest but came over after that. We continued to watch tv shows and cuddle, I think se was around 1,30 am before it was time to sleep.

Today I was gonna go home to Linda but she didn't feel to good so we will have coffee some other day. As for now it's only I that are up, J is still sleeping. Later on Kalle is coming over to dye my hair, it's about time. I haven't done it during these 5 weeks of renovation. I haven't felt like going outside with dye in my hair to go take a shower and wash it out. But now it's finally time.

Then he is gonna put up a shelf in the toilet as well. I can't wait until tomorrow when they bring in the bath tub so I can start unpacking everything and put everything in it's place. Then it's only the washing machine left that I hope they will plug in on monday or tuesday. Then my home is complete and everything as it should be. And the cats can home home again.

Is it Valentines day?

Waking up at 9.30 am was not my plan for today, I was thinking about sleeping until at least 11 am. But we stayed in bed and cuddled and fell in an out of sleep.

Last night it was just me. J was home and watched the Swedish song contest so I was in bed watching my tv shows. It's a few that has started again after the season break. So there I was having a good time waiting for him. He came shortly before 10.30 pm. Then it was even more tv shows and some cuddling.

I managed to book the laundry room until monday as well. The laundry basket is more than full. Oh God how I miss my washing machine. Almost more than I miss my shower. To be able to do laundry when I feel like it and not when the laundry room is available.

We went home to Kalle and said hi to the cats. How I miss them! But only one more week and then they are coming home again. Then when we got home Kalle came with us but I was a bad hostess and fell aslepp on the couch haha.

Today will be a slow day. I need to go grocery shopping as usual, today we will be having salmon for dinner. I hope, if they have any. Or else I have to improvise.

I guess it's Valentines day today. I'm not much for this day. At most we have Valentines day cookies so I guess we will have that today as well. Me and J arent gonna do anything today because he haven't said a word about it.

Time for a birthday party

Ooooh, yesterday I got to meet the cats again. So great. When Kalle came over he had forgotten the router so we went back home to him to get it and I got to cuddle with the cats. How I wanted to take them home. But only two weeks lef and then they are coming home again.

Last night I was home alone, a strange feeling. I'm used to either the munchkins are home or J is here. But J was at home watching some tv show with his family and came later that night. So I was in bed watching some tv shows, it wasn't that bad. I took a nap when I was watching Bones. I used to watch that show when I was gonna sleep so now that I watched it I got tired right away. 

Today I'm going home to my dad to celebrate his birthday. I'm taking the bus that goes 1:51 pm, we are gonna be there at 2 pm so I will be just on time. I'm guessing I will be there for a few hours before it's time to go home again. I need to check when the bus home leaves as well. They don't go that often on sundays and I don't wanna stand there and wait for an eternity.

A really bad day

Bleh what a bad day I had yesterday, and it started out so good.

Kalle came over and we plugged in the dishwasher and everything worked just fine. While it did the dishes we went to Elgiganten. I never goes anywhere while the dishwasher  or the washing machine is on, but nothing has ever happen so why should it now?

I got a new router, the one I got can't handle all the phones and computers at the same time. Kalle found a router online and I got it for a good price. We get back home happy.

When I got home there is water all over the floor, a lot of water. It's a whole in the tube to the dishwasher. Noooo! So Kalle and I had no other choice but to throw it out, and Lilith wanted to cry. So now I have to do the dishes by hand until I have saved up for a new one.

We connect the router and everything is fine, at first. Then the wifi starts to go down for both me and Kalle. Not for the munchkins or J though. Kalle and I have the same phones, so something with them and the router isn't good. It ends with me turning of the wifi on the phone. So I went from a dishwasher and a  new router to no router and doing the dishes by hand.

Kalle is soon on his way over here with his router, that we know can handle our phones so we know for sure if the problem is with the router and not my walls or anything like that. But I don´t think so because then the munchkins and J whould have a problem too.

Later we are going home to my mother. She is having a candle party and I have to get a new lamp for my wax melts. Leo broke mine by accident. Normally candle parties isn't for me but now I don't have much choice. I have checked all the stores down town but haven't found anything. Oh, I found one I bought before but that one ended with me having wax all over my table. And it's ugly. So now I have to ruin myself with one from Partylite.

 

Chaos deluxe

Today I first woke up at 9 am. I got up, had a smoke and went back to bed again. Woke up at 11 am when Js alarm went off. We stayed in bed and cuddled for a while before we got up.

Yesterday Lilith was pissed. J didn't show up until 9.30 pm. Så it was a bit of a tension here. I asked him why he was so late, and he said that before I had said that he could come when ever. I told him that it was when his friend Johan was here and he didn't know when he was going home. Then he said that what ever, we still would have time to do what we should. So I got pissed and got out for a smoke. What we would have time to do was watch a movie and then go to sleep. When I got back in we watch the rest of the movie and didn't say a thing. Then I said that he was stupid and pointed out that we see each other less now when we are together then before and he promised that it wouldn't happen again. So we will see when he gets here today.

Today Kalle is coming over. First he is gonna dye my hair, it's long overdue. Then we need to empty the hallway for the renovation that is starting tomorrow. They are gonna put in a temporary floor so they won't damage the floor that is there. They are renovating the bathroom and the toilet. For five weeks! I'm gonna die. Then we need to empty the bathroom and the toilet so we will keep busy today. J should have helped but he decided to go swiming with a friend. I guess you could do that insted of helping like you said. Kalle is also taking home our cats, they are gonna live with him during the renovation.

When I don't mind

Ååååh I have slept so good. I always do when I'm sleeping next to J. We hade a real nice evening yesterday. First we watched a horror movie and then 2 ½ men so I got to calm down a bit after the movie. Now he has just gone home and I' gonna get ready.

Then I'm going to the store, we need to eat today. Then home and do some house work, I have laundry to take care of. Lilith is in a really good mood today. So today it doens't bother me that I have to do all this house work.

Blue screen

Wow, I slept until 11 am, that felt good.

Yesterday at my brother was fun. As always with him. My mother talked about taking Maja for a weekend. That would be great. I love spending time with my kids but sometimes it's nice to do something else.

Today Kalle is coming over to try to figure out why Maja gets a blue screen on her computer from time to time. She is not happy about it. And I understand her. I would go crazy.

Me, I'm gonna clean and do laudry. The dishwasher is already running. Maja filled it up for me.

A long weekend

Oh what a long weekend is has been with Majas basketball cup. They won one game and lost the others. And all the parents helped in long shifts to keep score in other games. Yesterday we were there over 12 hours. For Majas last game Rasmus came and watched. A nice surprise.

Today I'm just gonna do nothing and enjoy every second of it. I'm gonna do the usual as taking care of the dishes but no laundry or nothing like that. Just gonna walk around in my sweat pants and enjoy it being Sunday.

No doing laundry today

What a day!

What a day we had yesterday. We celebrated Majas birthday and it was a very happy girl that went to sleep around 9 pm. She got money, books, gift card and a case for her mobile When it all was finished I was so tired that we had left-overs for dinner. Then we spent the evening on the couch watching tv.

Today I need to do some laundry so that Leo has pants for school and Maja clothes for her basketball practice. And then the usual cleaning.

Tonight I might come over. He will be here late at night since they had a gig yesterday and will be getting their instruments tonight. So he might come over after that.

My company today

He came!

I got the best surprise yesterday, Rasmus came by. He didn't tell me about it, only Maja. We had coffee and talked. He stayed for about an hour then left for home. I was so happy that he came by.

Today is laundry day like any other day. And I need to go to the store and get dinner. We are having tacos today. So I need to get some vegetables among other things. The kids are so happy, we almost never have tacos. I hate making them.

Laundry day

Time to start moving

Today it's time for another basketball cup and this time me and Leo isn't sick so we can go! I hate to miss one of her games like I did last time when Leo was sick.

That will take up the whole day. We are leaving in 30 minutes so I have a lot to do before that. Kalle is picking us up then. Having my coffee and getting myself ready is what I have to do. So I better start now.

A good saturday

Yesterday my dad came over for a visit after getting home from Cuba. And a short time after that Kalle came over too. We had coffee and talked, it was a nice time.

When my dad left Kalle stayed. Later on him and Maja left for a few hours. I'm not sure what they did besides go window shopping. I stayed at home and played WoW. When they got back we had a late dinner, pizza. When Maja went to bed Kalle left and I continued playing with my brother.

Today will be a slow day. I have som laundry to do until tomorrow when Leo comes home. That's about it. Maja is sitting with her tablet, as usual. I'm guessing she will be playing for a while. Maybe I'll do the same.

I miss my little man

In a bad mood

Woke up at 5 am the first time. Got up, got some water and went back to bed. Managed to get back sleep.

Today Maja has her basketball games. And since Leo has been sick I'm gonna miss it. That sucks. I wanted to be there. I missed her last away game too.

Insted I'm gonna stay at  home doing some laundry. Fun fun fun. I didn't clean the bathroom yesterday so maybe I'll do it today. I'm just in such a bad mood today so it's best that I keep away from the rest of the family.